Owen is 20 months old this coming Monday! It's amazing how fast this time goes and all the changes. He seems like such a little boy now with thoughts and opionions all his own that he expresses quite clearly.
He is talking tons, mimicking everything we say (including his first swear word "S@*#" which sadly was a mimic of me). He's starting to learn numbers (he can "count" 1-5 - still figuring out the general concept tho). He's learning shapes - identifying triangles, squares, circles, and stars. He can also correctly put the above shapes into the corrsponding holes in a little toy truck he has. He'll try all the wrong holes first so that he can say "No" on each one and then "Yes" when he gets to the right one. And he's starting to understand colors - he can say all of the colors. The only ones he identifies correctly most of the time are red, white, and purple. If he's not sure of a color he always says pink. He can name every kid in his class. He also knows his friend Alexandra's name ("Alet") and loves to spend time with her (below is a pic of them playing in a clothes hamper together).
He's starting to understand giving commands - and in fact is getting quite bossy. He'll say things like "Dada... sit... lap." Which translates into "Sit down Dad, I want to sit in your lap." And lately he seems obsessed with anything about cleanliness (garbage truck, trash, dirty, yucky, clean up, wipes, etc.) The latest things that impressed us the most were naming a keypad (saying "keypad") in a restaurant that the waiters use - he said it and pointed it out long before I noticed it in the room. And the other thing was that it was sunny on Saturday but rainy on Sunday. Sunday we were eating lunch and he pointed outside and said, "Rain, rain, go away."
He continues to be mister activity. He doesn't walk anywhere - it's run everywhere. In stores when we let him walk - holding our hands - he wants to run or hop down the aisles. The hopping gets a lot of chuckles from passers-by especially since Robbie hops with him. I get commands to jump as well - but no way is that happening at the moment. He's also learned how to kick balls - which he loves to do all the time now.
He continues to be daddy's boy. But this has improved somewhat. Owen and I both had President's Day off but Robbie was working and then the following Saturday Robbie was gone much of the day skiing. So I got two days of just me and Owen which was awesome! We had tons of fun - getting together with Ariel & Alex and with Michelle & Angelica. We hit the park and the zoo and a tea house. I think this time of just the two of us really helped because now Owen doesn't scream (as much) when I try to "take" him from Robbie. And he picks some things to do with Mom even when Dad is around. It's awesome. Last week we were watching Elmo together (which he is now obsessed with and has to watch every day when we get home) and he spent the entire show snuggled up to my belly - even though Abby was kicking him the entire time. So cute!
My favorite latest ritual is at nighttime... We have a book about going to sleep with lots of different types of hugs and kisses (fish kisses, gorilla hugs, polar bear hugs, snake hugs, etc.). Every night as Robbie gets ready to take Owen upstairs to start quiet time we spend a good 5-10 minutes doing variations of all these hugs and kisses (going from Mom to Dad) to say goodnight. I love getting the snuggles.